Spanking

To master the art of erotic spanking, it is important to understand the following principles: 1. The bottom is a erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried deeper and require harder stimulation to activate them; 2. A proper spanking, such as over the knee causes the bottom to squirm from the sting and the clitoris to simultaneously rub on the supporting knee. 3. The feeling of surrender is an important part of a woman's sexual response, as many women need to give up control to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings. 4. On the other hand, like with most things a woman must feel safe before she can give up complete control and surrender. Therefore, you must earn her trust before attempting the game of erotic spanking. You must associate the spanking with sexual pleasure, keeping in your mind this is for both of you. 5. The actual spanks should be mixed with caresses and gentle rubbing of her bottom and genitalia if possible. Now, do not go winding up like a maniac, there is an actual manner to spanking a slave. Rub your hands together to ensure that they are warm when they connect with her skin. Right-handed people tend to use their right hands; you can choose whichever hand you are more comfortable with or even alternate. Just never, smack both cheeks at the same time. You may end up hurting your slave in a way that was not intended. Make sure you choose a position where you are able to move freely and precisely. The last thing you want to do is smack her in a spot that could be highly sensitive and cause permanent pain. Always keep your hand solid and slightly cupped this will ensure a nice sound, a slight sting, and a whole lot of pleasure. Remember that you are aiming for the meatiest part of her butt, which is the middle. After you actually slap her cheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it. Her butt should be bare and fully visible for the act. She can be across your knee or another object, in a doggy position, lying down flat on her belly or suspended, so long as her butt is easily accessible. Do not ask her if she likes it or if you can do it harder. You are the master, judge what to do by her reaction. If she does not yell out, or better she moans, then I strongly recommend that you spank her slightly harder and do not forget that you should not spank her in quick procession. Take your time spanking is an art, and if mastered it can be used to bring your slave into line or drive her to her erotic and insatiable limits. Anticipation will add to her sexual arousal and increase her interest. You can accentuate this by making her play with herself at regular intervals while waiting for her spanking. Of course, you will want to ensure that she obeys your instructions. If she is reluctant, make sure she knows her spanking will be harder. You can also order her to prepare herself for the spanking assuming a certain position or to get dressed in a certain way. Inform her that her spanking will depend on how you find her at the appointed time. These acts of preparing herself will have a direct effect on her, as it will make her think about it constantly. When it comes time for her spanking, take your time to inspect her. Comment on every characteristic that might change her punishment for good or bad. Let your eyes and hands inspect every inch of her body, the examination you give her will intensify her excitement. Always act as if you are only spanking her for her own good. Before you begin the spanking, make her perform a ritual, kneeling in front of you and begging for forgiveness. There are two types of blows that can be used: Stinging blow- you aim at the skin using just the power of your forearm. The hand is flicked or slapped at the target and stopped or pulled away at point of impact. This creates instant redness and generally gives the appearance of a thorough spanking without the intense pain. Deep blow-the swing uses the whole arm. The target is not the skin but the deep muscle tissue. Swing your whole arm without force, aiming at a spot past your target once hand connects keep in on the spot of connection for a short moment before removing it, allowing the energy to push deep into the muscle. The time spent on the spanking is up to you but a rule of thumb is the more intense the punishment the shorter the time. By starting light and slow, you can build up the intensity. If you constantly change the rhythm, speed, and placement, you can keep your slave off guard so they cannot block out the pain. Start with some firm crisp stinging slaps to bring out the color then when they think that they are handling the pain well mix it up with one or two deep blows making sure to pause between each stroke. As it proceeds and they start to become aroused and used to the sensation add some slow deep strokes grabbing the connection spot increasing the intensity. Once you have created a nice rosy hue on the buttocks, cool your slave’s buns down with ice between smacks. The ice is soothing but the slick surface will make your next smack sting even more intense.